Thursday, August 8, 2013

Family gossip

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When our mothers leave us they leave with a trove of family stories and gossip.  They also make it hard to follow the trials and tribulations of one's extended family. While your mother is alive and able to use the telephone, male relatives are able to keep up with things through their mothers.
  • Your cousin is getting a divorce. Your cousin tells his mother. His mother tells your mother and she tells you. 
  • Your cousin got a DWI. Your cousin tells his mother. His mother tells your mother and she tells you.
  • Your niece dropped out of Bucknell. She tells her mother. Your sister-in law tells your mother and she tells you. 
  • Your cousin lost his job. He had to borrow money from your uncle. Your uncle told your aunt, she told your mother and your mother told you. 
One good thing about family gossip is that it often shows your parents how lucky they are to have you rather than the flotsam and jetsam of the extended family. However it is hard to keep up on things when mother passes away. Of course there's always Facebook. Unfortunately, Facebook posts tend to dwell on accomplishments, cute pictures of the kids and vacations. A keen eye may note a missing husband from vacation pictures, but mothers are a better source of what your cousins were really up to.

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